I have to be up at 4am for a big day, it is currently 11:08pm and I am not the slightest bit tired.
So what better way to help pass the time than to write a blog about my current random thoughts that nobody seems to be reading. At least I can be as blunt as I want, I guess.
This might seem obvious to you but I have recently discovered that the older we all get, the more respect, more attention, more "status" we want to get. To get these things you need to be mature. Not act like some school-yard bitch playing a game of whispers about someone and then act like their best friend when they're around.
Fuck that shit, man!
In this world, nothing is given. You want it, you get it. Want to own nice things? Work for it. As it is said: Spoon feeding in the long run teaches nothing but the shape of the spoon.
This is so true. In a world where we are all competing for the same result. We all want status, we all want power- but with power comes responsibilities. So if you aren't up to stepping to the plate, don't get mad at someone for getting a home run.
I am now seeing in all social circles in my life that I am dealing with two year olds. They all want the praise and respect but really do nothing to earn it. I have decided that I am now going to turn my bullshit tolerance off and just call it like I see. Like I use to, but in today's age calling someone out for acting like a child is frowned upon- not it my book.
If you are going to act like an idiot and belittle someone in front of others to make yourself feel good, I'll do the same back. Deal with it. Confrontation isn't something that is foreign to me. You might have a higher position than me on the ladder, but really that doesn't mean a thing. If you're being a prick, (regardless of what ever level you're on) I'll tell you that you're being a prick. Deal with it. Don't like it? Don't be a prick. Simple.
I just find it extremely amusing that there are people who in an attempt to show how mature, responsible and capable they are at performing tasks stoop to the lowest level to prove their point and in reality they have no idea how to do anything.
So they form 'cliques' and alliences in a bid to protect themselves. Obviously they are unaware that isolation is dangerous. It leaves you vulnerable. You don't know what your enemies are saying, or your friends. Even if you are the leader of something, there is always someone waiting for you to fall. Wishing for your downfall- and usually this is your friends that are doing it.
I guess what I am trying to say is, just because you don't like someone/something doesn't mean that others all feel the same about it. Just because you found a few people that share your views doesn't mean that you are safe from other people. Those in your circles may tell you what you want to hear. Stroke your ego. Feed you things that you want to hear. But behind your back they're conspiring to take you down and raise themselves up.
I love people that make things seem like I am back in high school- Thinking they are the cool kids just because they put down those that do what their there to do. Belittling someone, especially in front of a group of people says far more about the person doing the belittling that it ever will about the person they are victimizing.
If you put others down just so then you can feel like you're worth something, you're obviously not worth shit. The fact is after awhile those that you thought you had in your power and under your spell will actually wake up and realize you are acting like nothing more than a petty high schooler.
So what better way to help pass the time than to write a blog about my current random thoughts that nobody seems to be reading. At least I can be as blunt as I want, I guess.
This might seem obvious to you but I have recently discovered that the older we all get, the more respect, more attention, more "status" we want to get. To get these things you need to be mature. Not act like some school-yard bitch playing a game of whispers about someone and then act like their best friend when they're around.
Fuck that shit, man!
In this world, nothing is given. You want it, you get it. Want to own nice things? Work for it. As it is said: Spoon feeding in the long run teaches nothing but the shape of the spoon.
This is so true. In a world where we are all competing for the same result. We all want status, we all want power- but with power comes responsibilities. So if you aren't up to stepping to the plate, don't get mad at someone for getting a home run.
I am now seeing in all social circles in my life that I am dealing with two year olds. They all want the praise and respect but really do nothing to earn it. I have decided that I am now going to turn my bullshit tolerance off and just call it like I see. Like I use to, but in today's age calling someone out for acting like a child is frowned upon- not it my book.
If you are going to act like an idiot and belittle someone in front of others to make yourself feel good, I'll do the same back. Deal with it. Confrontation isn't something that is foreign to me. You might have a higher position than me on the ladder, but really that doesn't mean a thing. If you're being a prick, (regardless of what ever level you're on) I'll tell you that you're being a prick. Deal with it. Don't like it? Don't be a prick. Simple.
I just find it extremely amusing that there are people who in an attempt to show how mature, responsible and capable they are at performing tasks stoop to the lowest level to prove their point and in reality they have no idea how to do anything.
So they form 'cliques' and alliences in a bid to protect themselves. Obviously they are unaware that isolation is dangerous. It leaves you vulnerable. You don't know what your enemies are saying, or your friends. Even if you are the leader of something, there is always someone waiting for you to fall. Wishing for your downfall- and usually this is your friends that are doing it.
I guess what I am trying to say is, just because you don't like someone/something doesn't mean that others all feel the same about it. Just because you found a few people that share your views doesn't mean that you are safe from other people. Those in your circles may tell you what you want to hear. Stroke your ego. Feed you things that you want to hear. But behind your back they're conspiring to take you down and raise themselves up.
I love people that make things seem like I am back in high school- Thinking they are the cool kids just because they put down those that do what their there to do. Belittling someone, especially in front of a group of people says far more about the person doing the belittling that it ever will about the person they are victimizing.
If you put others down just so then you can feel like you're worth something, you're obviously not worth shit. The fact is after awhile those that you thought you had in your power and under your spell will actually wake up and realize you are acting like nothing more than a petty high schooler.
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